A new faith-based matchmaking service has set Nigerian social media ablaze. Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo, founder of David’s Christian Centre and well-known relationship coach, recently unveiled Mentor To Marry, a platform connecting Christian singles through guided matchmaking and mentorship. The pricing has become a flashpoint, with annual memberships ranging from N70,000 to a controversial N700,000 VIP package.
The backlash came swiftly. Social media users questioned how a pastor warning against commercialised relationships could charge such steep fees. One X user asked pointedly: “Who has such an amount if not rich men?” Another wondered whether N700,000 wouldn’t stretch further in the regular dating scene. The criticism centers on whether the platform creates financial barriers to finding love, particularly for everyday Nigerians already facing economic pressures.
Not everyone sees it as exploitation. Former Big Brother Naija contestant Neo defended the initiative, suggesting that paying for counselling might “unlock common sense” for singles who struggle with relationship choices. Other supporters noted the platform offers more than simple introductions, including assessment processes and structured mentorship before matching potential partners.
The debate continues to rage across platforms, revealing deeper questions about faith, finances, and modern matchmaking in Nigeria. Whether Mentor To Marry succeeds may depend on finding singles willing to invest heavily in their search for marriage.
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