Nigerian media personality and content creator Amarachi Amusi popularly known as Ashmusy has revealed that she is no longer under pressure to get married after taking steps to secure her dream of becoming a mother in the future.
Speaking during a recent episode of the Echo Room podcast the 30 year old influencer explained that freezing her eggs has given her peace of mind and removed the fear of rushing into marriage because of age or societal expectations.
Ashmusy disclosed that she once considered marrying a man she knew was not her ideal partner simply because she was desperate to have children before turning 35. According to her many women rush into marriage because of pressure related to the biological clock and fear of missing the opportunity to become mothers.
She admitted that the pressure almost pushed her into making the wrong decision but said she later realized marriage should not be based on fear or desperation.
“I want to get married but I am not desperate. Just in case the right suitor does not come I am already safeguarded. I am already sure of being a mom by God’s grace,” she said during the podcast.
The content creator explained that freezing her eggs has given her the freedom to wait for the right partner while still having confidence in her future plans for motherhood. She added that in the next few years she could choose insemination if necessary and still have children.
Ashmusy also spoke about her desire to have mixed race children in the future. Her comments have sparked conversations online about fertility options marriage pressure and the growing number of women choosing to prioritize personal happiness and career growth before settling down.
The influencer is widely known for her comedy skits lifestyle content and social media presence which has earned her a large following across Nigeria and beyond.
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